“There is no place like home, … there is no place like home.”

It’s over. Today marks the end of my husband’s surreal, nightmarish journey on the “Corrupted California Road TO OZ”, or “Through The Dark Looking Glass of Sociopath Insanity” inflicted on us by the conniving machinations of the sperm-stalking, Wicked Witch of the West and her cabal of corrupt flying monkeys or useful idiots she exploited to do her evil.

We endured. She forever failed. She can no longer covet or steal our garden of roses aided by the parasitic ilk enabling her frauds and deceits.

We are free, rescued by time. Basking in the glow of our strength, love and resilience, inspired by God’s grace and knowledge. We are still happy and married, “ever after”, in spite of the desperate, aging crone’s calumnies to defame and destroy us.

She was and always will be an ugly and illegitimate interloper or pretentious outsider.   Who used blackmailing copulation and extortion as a means to an end.  It was never “lovemaking”.  Everything she did was corrupt, founded on hatred, envy, greed.  Constituting outright fraud, deceits and bastardizations, both legally and morally.

We found the light at the end of the tunnel.   Or is that the lightening, winds and wrath of a CAT. 5 hurricane headed towards her trailer trashy Florida lair ?

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Cheap, Coersive Sex is Not a Romantic “Relationship” !!!

Once upon conniving, ”what-about-me-isms”… cloaked under the protections of Constitutional immunities and privileges that affect personal, liberty, marital and privacy rights, a Machiavellian evil, exploiter (aka-sociopath) decided to commit corporate espionage and wrongdoings hoping to leverage and entrap her prey, my husband.

This 30 something, married but available, female-predator met my husband through her employer’s business dealings. From their initial introduction and back whispering she perceived him as a wealthy, successful, noble or white-knight kind of prey. Worthy of being “side-porked” or pursued by a social-climbing, marauding opportunist.

Apparently, she never even loved the duped, cuckolded man she had just recently married. Because her husband proudly bragged to me that he had “agreed” to pay off her student loan debt in exchange for her seduction and marriage vows. She exhibited no guilt or remorse to him about the consequences of her behavior. In other words, she had no qualms about abusing and exploiting him, or to cheat on him, seeking to trade up.

After sexually compromising my targeted husband, (her client), during a drunken celebration of the closure of their business transactions, she started her years long campaign of harassing and stalking him. She persisted in coaxing and cajoling him into “helping her” with her career. Maneuvering to position him as her “mentor” from afar, to network with others.

From that point afterwards, this weaseling woman kept up a litany of excuses of exploitive pretenses to be useful to him, literally “stalking” him across three continents to stay in his business orbit. After her next employer threatened to transfer her to MOSCOW if she did not resign, she blackmailed my husband into hiring her as payback for all the “mutually benefiting” information and self-serving “services” she had rendered to him to ingratiate herself.

Unfortunately, all of her sex-exploitations, or her “shelf life” was about to expire. Within two months of her hiring, she quickly wore out her unwelcome when my husband’s other subordinates vehemently objected to her pissy, arrogant, condescending, and sanctimonious attitudes, given her utter business incompetence. The only thing she actually knew how to do, was to “market herself” to my husband.

My husband flatly told her that there was no private future for them and that their inappropriate and “meretricious” associations needed to stop. He had thrown her a lifeline, but it was time to move on. Apparently, it came as a shocking surprise that he would throw her overboard because he valued and loved his wife and family more. In spite of her “no-strings-attached”, fantasy relationship parameters.

Being the predictable, mentally deranged, devious or damaged skank that she was, when her directed love-bombing schemes and covert manipulations did not pan out as plotted, she resorted to other subterfuge to undermine her alleged mentor.

Naturally, the winning ploy was to place him in utter distress by threatening to expose to his wife their cheap and coerced, past sexual entanglements. Effectively, she indecently propositioned, that in order to get out of their “inappropriate interactions”, he would need to agree to an unconscionable deal with the devil.

She blackmailed him to enter into oral and written contracts, where in exchange for certain considerations, he would secretly donate his Scandinavian sperm to her at a California sperm bank that she had already selected. This hostage release deal was made with her promises that “no future expectations or obligations” would ever be demanded by her of him, if he gifted his sperm. He foolishly thought he had bought his release with his compliance. So much for trusting a conniving sociopath, or pathological liar.

Predictably, almost 10 years later, she reneged on her agreements and stabbed him in the back. She managed to improperly sue him by frauds upon the courts, in what constituted jurisdictionally defective, unauthorized proceedings for certain restricted UCCJEA prohibited matters.

The legal consequences of the court’s own undisputed “findings” resulted in “factual determinations” that this married woman, when her child was born eight years earlier, had effectively shrouded her private procreative activities within the confines of her marital immunities and privileges. All done with the knowledge, aid, collusion and abetting of her former husband. Who is automatically presumed established by law and the only
“Legal Father”.

Moreover, the court made explicit findings that during the previous eight years he had willing supplied generous amounts of financial and emotional support to his wife, to in effect, legally estoppel, or “preclude” (or stay) any further legal proceedings to challenge or to refute his long established, “parental status” that applied under California Family Code Sections, 7601,7601, 7610, 7611 and 7645 et seq.
( See legal case law authorities, “Lisa I. V Superior Court (2005) 133 Cal. App. 4th 605; Dawn D. v. Superior Court (1998)
17 Cal. App. 4th 932; and the recent new California Supreme Court opinion
Bianka M. v. Superior Court (8/16/2018) case # S233757.)

Because her former husband was already the only legal father, the court had no further legal discretion or jurisdictional power or authority to intervene, or to act, or “to proceed” to untimely rebut or negate the husband’s already established parental status or to refute and terminate her child’s protected presumption of legitimacy.

In other words, her improper-purposes, “unclean hands”, requests for mischievous and unlawful reliefs, prohibited by statutes were unauthorized and improperly petitioned for in what constituted inapplicable or unfounded UCCJEA proceedings. Because her husband’s parental status was automatically binding pursuant to California’s constitutionally-valid, and comprehensive, governing UNIFORM PARENTAGE ACT, (UPA). Its standing standards are buttressed by a long line of California Appellate and Supreme Court opinions that dictate how lower superior courts must made parentage determinations.

Yet, to this day, this dysfunctional parasite has continued to dissemble and confuse others with her pity ploys and calculated lies about these legal facts. She makes misleading insinuations and connotations with her slandering and hate-pimping. She uses disparaging defamation tactics and smear campaigns against my husband and I to further her outrageous subterfuge. Not only did we discover that she falsified her child’s birth certificate by claiming my husband was her husband, but that she has continued her pathological pattern of making such false declarations by outright written statements to others that she was effectively “married to” him, and/or later divorced from him. When she was not.

After dragging my husband through unconscionable legal charades and court abuses, she has continued to still follow and/or stalk us. Public records searches showed we bought a retirement, second home in Florida; so under suspicious circumstances she moved across the continent from California to Florida. I assume she hoped she would oh-so-coincidentally run into him.

Bizarrely, we recently discovered in closed court records, that she signed under penalty of perjury, that she lives with my husband at his address. Her insanity never ends.

Apparently, in her morally bankrupt world, as an intellectual sloth, she still has no shame, no remorse, nor any regret about any of the harms, effects, or the consequences of her reckless lies and destructive deceits. Even those calumnies used to deceive and manipulate her precious child. Whom she likes to call, “Your Majesty”. The brazen fruit that she birthed doesn’t seem to have fallen far from the poisonous tree, either. He parrots his mother’s vicious lies and talking points in locked step. I can’t even keep track of all of her shocking, cluster-farce of frauds, illegal conduct, and “crimes of moral turpitude”.

Thus malignant sociopath has no problem preening and bragging about the galling fact that she also will “never, ever make any apologies for “who or what she is.” In all of this washed up, ugly crone’s rewrites or whitewashing of “her-story”, she purports to otherwise, “sleep soundly at night”, unabashedly “secure in her integrity.”

Well Good for that belligerent, snarky shark, and bless her little black-heart. 🖤

If it weren’t so serious, all of her feigned indignations and self-serving, sanctimonious, hypocrisy is unbelievably ludicrous and laughable.

“True Love” does not steal or covert or take. Love is not jealousy, nor revenge inspired. “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.” It is not rude, it is not self-serving or seeking, it is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrongs. Love, 💕 does not delight in evil wrongdoings. Love is honest, truthful, and protecting. Love always perseveres.”

Maybe one day this delusional reprobate will do something really stupid and illegal that finally results in her getting caught and/or sanctioned with some well deserved righteous justice.

Perhaps a court will impose DOMESTIC VIOLENCE PROTECTIVE ORDERS against her for attempting to continue to smear and harm my personal relationships, interests and rights. There ought to be some sort of redress for her rabid, pathological lies, hate-pimping, frauds and deceits.

Now who in your eyes represents the real threat when this sick psycho still persists on harassing a devoted married couple. Merely because she can not move on, or get over the fact that she NEVER meant anything to her beloved sperm donor.

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Most people would find it shocking to discover that in California, despite mandatory spousal consent laws and information material for disclosure purposes in conducting transactions that might affect future marital property interests, California CRYO Banks don’t bother to verify the sensitive nature of relationships of known parties to ask them proper consent questions when they broker, as a third party, sperm donation transactions.

I am not discussing anonymous contributions, pay to play deals, where a CRYOBANK tests, screens and resells the sperm for a profit.

I’m talking about the fact that any hustler with a vagina can “open an account” and get an otherwise, emotionally unavailable,  known sperm donor to go in and deposit sperm for her amoral, recreational, reproductive uses without alerting a married donor’s spouse to the suspicious transaction, that could possibly affect her future marital property equity interests.

Apparently in the eyes of altruistic institutions such as CALIFORNIA CRYOBANK, married men own their sperm.  They consider these unique, disposable, tadpole swimmers (gamete substances) to be the “separate property” of a male donor and thus a man does not need to get his wife’s consent to “gift” his sperm away to parties “outside of” the marriage.

But in the reverse situation, women whose positions, which are “similarly situated”, like being “married”  are held to a much stricter standard.  They must get the written consent of their spouse to gift their female gamete substances away.  Even if a woman is not married, but in a relationship with a significant other, she still needs her sexual partner’s consent and written permission to contract out her eggs to another third party.  Women it seems are treated as chattel or second class citizens.  Who do not have the proper sensibilities to control the use of their “separate property” eggs.

You would think with equal protection, due process laws in place… What is good for the GOOSE,  should be good for the GANDER ???

But, OOOpps…. apparently that would be an inappropriate, biased assumption.  Male ducks can be promiscuous as heck, with no accountability.  But let’s see,  Geese ?  Well, gggeeseus ….  they get asked such invasive questions as to “who is their actual goose husband” or “what goose are they regularly shagging or living with ?”   And sorry gals,   but us Cryobanks need to protect our legal behinds and we need that male’s  signature for such a goose-gamete egg transfer.

Back in 2001, when I found out that my ducky husband had been deceitfully manipulated and cozened into acting as a known sperm donor for his sociopathic business “friend”, who was a married woman, I tracked down and called up the mystery sperm bank and was told outright that I had no right, whatsoever to ask any personal questions about my husband’s ejaculation “transaction”.  That, by the way, blatantly violated California marital consent laws.  The bank was appalled at my rightous indignation.  So they characterized my justified alarm and concerns for my interests as being inappropriate, rude and claimed I was unduly aggressive towards their staff. Because I dared to challenge their donor consent policies and to ask personally invasive questions about the sperm recipient.

To conduct a business in California, a business has to follow all of California’s laws.  CA. CryoBank (CCB ) apparently felt certain inconvenient, pesky CA. transaction laws do not apply to their sperm banking operations.

Unfortunately, it took seven more years and a discovery subpoena to finally uncover all the deceptions committed by the unscrupulous sperm recipient. She had fraudulently misrepresented material facts, (like, alleging that my husband was her spouse with a different last name) to open her sperm bank account.  She was maliciously able to do things like this without any proof (-i.e., a marriage certificate) to verify her relationship status in order to skirt legal hurdles.   HER word was good enough for them in their books.

No wonder the sperm bank was so arrogantly hostile to me.  I was cast in the worst of light by the toxic dispersions of an interloper’s smear campaign. Who told the clinic that I was the EX-WIFE, when that was a lie. CCB was covering their legal backside, because they knew they had never bothered to ask my husband  “who he was actually married to” when he filled out their vague information questionnaire.   They just asked him, “if” he was married.   Then he just handed over his little cup, full of SWEDISH SPERM and signed away his rights to the use of his superior “sailors”.  If they had asked relevant consent questions like, …. is this woman opening the account your wife ?….perhaps the sperm bank just might have discovered there was a possible conflict of legal interests and fraud.

Those pesky, investigative, invasions of personal situations are just so inappropriate to ask a man according to the American Society for Reproductive Medicine.   But for a woman, no question or personal detail is beyond scrutiny.  Sperm is just a commodity that ethically blind Sperm-Banks profit from.  So storing coveted sperm for some manipulative, lying hustler was no problem, because the crone paid the bill.

As certain truths game to light that year, my husband asked that the remaining ( supposedly  non-viable) sperm held by CCB be destroyed.  We argued this because the deranged Babymama had by deceits and false promises coerced my husband into donating sperm to her and then later she reneged on all the legal considerations made in order for this suspicious property transfer to have happened.

The indignant babymama refused to close her CCB account and destroy the remaining sperm upon my husband’s requests.  She Challenged both us and the CCB, claiming that my husband’s sperm (acquired by frauds) was her sole, legal property !    

In order to determine who owned the suspect, remaining sperm still in CCB ‘s possession, CCB told us we needed to go to court to litigate the matter.  Forcing us to hire a lawyer to protect our interests in the disputed sperm property, which had been taken hostage and was being held for a $60K ransom by the evil, succubus from HELL.

CCB did agreed to “freeze” the disputed account, because of the woman’s ever growing, outrageous conduct, exposure of her lies, hoaxes and other obvious crimes and deceptions.  Their policies and contract dictated that if the social parasite “was married”, then technically her real husband’s written consent was required to open an account!  Voiding the storage contract.

The petulant shrew threw herself into a fit of indignant rage.  With her twisted, perverted tantrums she decided to show us who had true integrity and who held the moral high ground. Declaring that if we wanted a war, she would gladly wage a WAR on us and our marriage.

She continued her madness by holding my husband’s sperm hostage and for ransom for the next 18 months.  In fact, she threatened him with procreating other unwanted, possible spawns unless he gave into her extortion demands.

In 2008, the sociopathic Stalker submitted colorful pleadings and perjurious declarations to the court to procure inappropriate paternity actions against the sperm donor. She rewrote history and described this prior incident with the California Cryobank (during 2001 to 2003) to the judge as us – contemptuously harassing her, (by us merely hiring a lawyer (in 2002) to deal with her frauds) and perjured documents and lies, – and to mischaracterize our actions as somehow, an aggressive, “vindictive” attack on her dignity and indignant integrity. An unwarranted intrusion on her rights of privacy and liberty rights to create and raise her conceptions as she damn well pleased, without any outsider interferences.

It is a Good thing … Big numbers on lawsuits have a way of humbling the most arrogant !

If ardent feminists want to yell loudly … “Women’s bodies, Women’s choices !!!” … Then how about arguing it should then be a Women’s total responsibility ?

Look,  If some depraved, sperm-stalking psycho-bitch, or mentally-deficient, dirty little secretion wants to gallivant about the streets, being wildly promiscuous and unencumbered by life’s realities and consequences, choosing to have unprotected sex and then later on making the unilateral, one sided choice to bear a child…  then by all means, go ahead with your little vanities, have at it.   But you dear, are on your on.  If you want to play in the big girl leagues, you need to be the one who pays for your absurd indiscretions and choices.

Just don’t ask me ( the betrayed wife) to pay for your adultery, sins or your vain, malicious procreation choices.  Unless you want me to now also play a MOMMY role ?

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