Arianna ventured down the rabbit hole of adultery. Unfortunately, I think she will forever be lost in her own “looking glass” of absurd justifications for pursuing a married man.
After countless hours and years of obsessively chronicling about the alleged love betrayals, she is now emotionally coping with this past “detrimental relationship” and her love-interest’s rejection by creating a very interesting
blog about her run-in with pathological narcissistic insanities, emotional manipulations and maladjusted reasoning. (Search for “Psychopaths and Love”.)
Unable to deal with lingering abandonment and trust issues, she is obviously self medicating by sharing her appropriated psychological research and pin-interests. Magically turning the tables on the male to make him out to be the sociopath. An aggressive,
“emotional rapist“. She reveals or projects all of his perceived tactics of abuse. Portraying herself, (naturally) as the poor, aggrieved female victim on the receiving end of a doomed-from-the-start, scandalous, dysfunctional, adulterous association or “social liaison” (AKA: extra-marital affair).
Maybe it is all true, this specious Fatal Attraction–Love Story. But early on, -before she edited her posts- she revealed in her critical analysis of dysfunctional personalities an inconvenient truth. That in fact, once she knew that the love-of-her-life, soul-meat was married, she could not stop the relationship. Nope, she just could not control herself and the insanity.
Apparently her emotional undoing was because she was victimized and hooked by this sociopath’s “love-bombing” drama. But, then again, she really had no other choice but to adapt and become an equally obsessed, stalking sociopath after he rejected her ??? She makes no concession of the possibility that jealousy or revenge might be motivating a spurned ex-lover to lash-out. Rejection does make for an interesting dynamic in how one depicts or rewrites history. (Her-story)
Typically, in most deranged sociopaths (not so beautiful) minds, they will charmingly reassure you-with plausible lies- that it is or never was their own fault for the consequences of their own emotional arrested development or poorly informed choices.
My first impression of this basically very informative website seemed to be just “one emotionally unhinged pot calling the other kettle black” ! But it’s worth the read just for the research and thoughts she has compiled.
I would think by now she would have figured it out.
Mentally disturbed reprobates, malignant narcissists or Sociopaths DON’T KNOW WHAT REAL Love Is. Nor do they know How to Love. Arianna, dear …. it is time to let it go and move on as a wiser person.
“Covert Emotional Manipulation Tactics” are very descriptive of the damaged, perverted (anti-social) pathologies (tools of deceit) shameless gutter-whores exhibit. The outright utter contempt these female social predators have for the collateral damage they inflict on their targets and their innocent families shows just how unscrupulous and immoral these deviants (“people of the lie”) truly are. Their persistent patterns of wanton, self serving tactics of abuse include using projection, blame-shifting and justifying excuses (means justify the ends) to cover up their wrongdoing. Exposing their total egotistical self-absorption, fraud and reckless disregard for the rights and interests of other people.
And down the rabbit hole of crazy we go…..
When you find yourself using ALL these BUZZ words to describe the traits of someone disrupting your world … CONNIVING, SELFISH, DISDAINFUL, IMPATIENT, ANGRY, UNDERHANDED, RECKLESS, RELENTLESS, CONFRONTATIONAL, GREEDY, COVETOUS, WILLFUL, PRIDEFUL, ARROGANT, non-REMORSEFUL, SPITEFUL, CRUEL, UNTRUSTWORTHY, SCORNFUL, TREACHEROUS, DISLOYAL, SNEAKY, MANIPULATIVE, BELLIGERENT, CALCULATING, SCHEMING, DEVIOUS, DECEITFUL, CUNNING, JEALOUS, UNREPENTANT, UNSCRUPULOUS, SHAMELESS, CALLOUS, RECKLESS, BRUTAL, CONTEMPTUOUS, COLD-BLOODED,VICIOUS, ABUSIVE, RASH, CONCEITED, UNGRATEFUL, BOASTFUL, PROUD, UNHOLY, SLANDEROUS, IMMORAL, and PATHOLOGICALLY LIES……. you must realize that you’ve got a certifiable and Biblically dangerous reprobate or SPATH on the radar.
Our felony committing, Valkyrie Eugenics inspired, deranged “sperm-stalker” has all the malevolent, “DARK-TRIAD” psycho-traits of the above described social pariahs. I believe our psycho-bitch from hell is not only delusional and dysfunctional, she is an evil menace to society.
This rational, armchair conclusion that she suffers from some perverted psychopathy seems confirmed by the HARE PSYCHOPATHY CHECKLIST of psychopath behaviors, listed below.
- Malignant, narcissistic attitudes and self interested behaviors, seeks attention, has superficial charm, appears to be exciting
- Dis-functionally impulsive, uses flattery and her usefulness to ingratiate herself into her target’s world
- Aggrandizement of her unsupported personal and professional accomplishments
- Wants others to admire her, so she fronts her character with “used” or fake prestigious, status symbols of success. (Mostly bought off EBAY)
- Uses exploitative social strategies, pathological mendacity (lies), commits frauds and deceits and uses other Machiavellian behaviors to covertly manipulate others to get her way. “The ends justify the means” life approach.
- Considers herself extremely intelligent, above others, “gifted” and “special. Brags about her superior aptitudes and cleverness to others.
- Callous, insensitive disdain or unconcern for the feelings of others;
- Is without conscience. Has NO concern for morality or the morality of her actions,
- Lacks remorse, cynical, and has shallow emotions.
- Displays a gross and persistent attitude of irresponsibility and disregard for social norms, rules, and obligations. Often squanders resources. A profligate, heedless lifestyle.
- Incapacity to maintain enduring relationships, although they have no difficulty in establishing them.
- Very low tolerance to frustration and a low threshold for discharge of aggression, including rage, tantrums. Holds grudges.
- Incapacity to experience guilt or to profit from experience, particularly punishment;
- Markedly prone to blame others or offers plausible, “justifying” rationalizations for the behavior that has brought the person into conflict with society.
- Always expects special favors from others
- Sexually deviant and licentious.
- Plays the poor, damsel in distress, victim card regularly to exploit others or entrap them. ( Borderline pathology)
- Persistent irritability ,….. “scary” when challenged … ( Can it be it’s because she can’t contain her disdain and contempt for you ?)
To understand more about predatory psychopathy I recommend you read this blog: